No wonder you like older guys... Less chance they are gamers!
As for me, I actually don't miss sex nearly as much as having someone to hug, hold hands, kiss, snuggle with. Then again I've never been a typical guy but that is honestly what I miss most
And then your D. You might want to explain to her that you teach people how to treat you. Her dads new wife has taught him he can get away with treating her like crap - so he does. I'd say teach her that she needs to teach any guy how she wants to be treated. He may not know on his own - certainly not everything. Remaining silent and allowing bad behavior is teaching him that's okay. Teach him how to treat you the way you want to be treated. That will go much further than him having to deal with you - which I get you didn't really mean that, just saying.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
A man who has food on the mind and loves to cuddle is my ideal man.
Older men haven't worked out so well for me. Younger men and men the same age hasn't either, haha. You get immaturity or MLC, or both! EHarmony guy is 5 years older. A good difference, I think.
Good idea Don. I think the teaching someone how to treat you well is a good thing for her to know. For other people, but not her dad. I've tried every tactic with that guy, none worked. He does not give a cr@p who he hurts or insults, unfortunately. But For other R's in her life, that would work well.
Sex...I remember that, I think. Now, I just go in and out of the fridge a lot...it's kinda the same thing.
BWAHAHAHA! Yeah, this is me too. Except I stopped going in the fridge, so now I need to have sex. I've been having tea instead.
Ok, so I know this sounds pathetic to even remember, but this day a year ago I remember as one of the best. My first full day in Disney, having a MAGICAL time, and I exchanged the words "I love you" for the first time in many years. I remember feeling like everything was just falling into place and it was the light at the end of my crappy tunnel for so many years.
But, things are different now and tonight, I have my first date in almost 8 months since him. I am kind of excited. Even if the date stinks, I get some Lebanese food. But hey, I think it has a chance of being a good one.
Have you heard from Barb in the last week? I think her father passed away this week.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
A bunch of divorced people on an island; there must be something interesting to do.
Ummmm..yeah…sit by the fire holding hands and singing cumbyya
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Did you hear about the psychologist that was giving a guy the Rorschach ink blot test? The psychologist shows the guy an ink blot and the guy says, "a man and a woman having sex." Then, he shows him another ink blot and he says, "it's a man and two women having a three-way." The psychologist continues showing the guy ink blots and every response the guy gives involves sex. Finally, the psychologist asks, "Is everything about sex?" And the guy answers, "What do you mean? You're the one with the dirty pictures."
ROTFLMAO.. By the way Doodler….what did you really see in the ink blots? LOL
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So I eager came to check out your thread. I know things were going “good”….spill the beans…how’d it go? Do me a UrWorthy need to kick arse? Details please?
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