she feels like she can't go anywhere without me since I control the money.
she did, however, schedule a cleaning get service for once a month for our house,and it pissed me off. she doesn't work, stays home with S who goes to school 3 days a week for r hours, and naps everyday for 2 hours. she has plenty of time to clean the house.
So is her feeling correct? Does she have any say in the finances? How do you guys communicate on money issues?
This looks like a similar pattern to my marriage. My ex would spend money on something I thought was unnecessary and Id be grumpy about it. All it did was lead to hurt and resentment on both sides as we never communicated clearly about budgets and plans.
