New LBH with WAW/Possibly WW, help Part 2

[nutts]

updates. nothing has happened R wise, outside of she says she feels like she can't go anywhere without me since I control the money. I didn't mention she could fie whenever she wanted, but I'm sure she knows that. she hasn't bought more crap for her new place at least.

she did, however, schedule a cleaning get service for once a month for our house,and it pissed me off. she doesn't work, stays home with S who goes to school 3 days a week for r hours, and naps everyday for 2 hours. she has plenty of time to clean the house.

I'm really pissed over this. we used to have a service, UT I told her im not paying it while she stays at home, and it stopped. she didn't do well cleaning honestly, but did enough. now this.

my thoughts range from kicking her ass out, making a big stink that she should be cleaning the house, or just deal with it while this sitch works itself out.

I know just deal with it short term is probably right, but it really makes me mad. I couldn't stand to be around her yesterday, and I left dinner that she cooked and we were all eating together. after I put S down, I left the house, watched world series at sports bar.

Anyway, we're going to a dinner and show it has my parents tonight (has been scheduled for a while), well see how it goes.

thanks.