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[ATPeace]

Thank you for your replies I am not filing for divorce I don't want to divorce

My W and I have spoken with the older children and they have both said they would want to live with me in Devon however I feel this would very much be based on me securing a property with land.

I do however still have many concerns re the distance it is about a three and a half hour drive each way

I have a question I am not good at relationships I have just had the one I do like being around people,

My job as a driving instructor means I spend time with people helping them to pass and then once they pass off they go very few keep in touch once they have passed ....I am teaching a lady at the moment and we have a very good in car relationship she is married and happy I would like to remain as friends once she passes. My circle of friends is limited and I would like to build it ...I do however see i am somewhat vulnerable with my emotions

I do not know how to approach the conversation with her about keeping in contact once she passes or In light of my situation perhaps I should just move on

I doubt myself and my decisions