Cherry, I hope that when you write about your H here, you're journaling and not brooding. You may think about your H; it's hard not to.

It's part of grieving.

But you know you have to stop yourself when you can't function because you're too obsessed with H.

You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.