He has her for 10 hours on Saturdays while I work. The other times, he can most definitely take her somewhere outside of the house.

I feel like he gets to do all the fun dad stuff and I get to do the parenting. I really feel like there has been no consequences for his actions. Even now, losing his family doesn't seem to be much of a punishment because he is getting to do what he does best. Avoid confrontation or having to face what he has done.


Me: 41
WH: 41
DS: 21
DD: 20
DD:18

Dday: Oct 2016
Currently Separated