So some quick questions while i read through those threads. #1- I am trying to stall as far as the whole divorce process. if she wants it im not doing her legwork, and she has yet to file. She has left me the counties DIY GUIDE TO DIVORCE laying around for me to fill out, but she hasnt mentioned directly to me, she is pushing to figure out our holidays with the kids, but feels like shes just after a fight. Her sister told me to get rid of the papers, so i did.
Even though it upsets her do i continue avoiding all divorce talk?
Look into the thread on VALIDATION, yes you can avoid the talk however you could also just agree as that takes the wind out of her sails.
Validation does not mean you help her do the work. It just stops the arguing.
