A review of finding out about A and telling W

[Steady9]

We talked for an hour tonight---I talked a little about the sex again of course, but in the context of what did this guy have that was worth a divorce. Did he have more money, better looking, fun friends, great lifestyle, etc.... I already knew the answers here (no for all of this)

She said it has nothing to do with this guy, it was destructive behavior in here, she points to her head. I have not brought up that the marriage is/was at risk when you sleep with someone else. This is a known way to break up a marriage. Why did you want a divorce.

Again, have not brought this up in a couple of weeks---she said the she just did not put it in that perspective, never thought we would be divorced.....