wife is going through withdrawal

[MJTT]

LiM I was guilty of neglecting my Wife, not listening but trying to "fix" her issues. We also had communication issues that we are both working on. We went to 2 MC sessions after the affair ended and that has helped us communicate a lot better and believe we are starting to understand each other better. She made the comment to me the other night that she felt like we both wanted the same thing but we communicated differently that it made her feel like she was alone in her thinking. I grew up in a family where we did not hug alot (I also have no sisters) and she was the opposite.
I've been spending some time working on the issues that plagued our marriage mentioned above but also have been GAL. I'm also helping more with my daughter and her family because they're going through financial hardships. i love my wife dearly and know she's mourning as Sandi said so I'm just tying to be patient but at times it's so hard because I feel like there's no end in sight.