I agree. I've made it too easy for him so far. Proud of myself today. I've ignored all his attempts to make contact. Am I normal? I am losing interest in reconciliation. The less I contact him, the stronger I feel. Don't get me wrong, there are moments of overwhelming sadness but I put up with his infidelity for a long time. Three Ddays in four years. I suddenly feel like I can breathe a bit.