So here is how I responded.

Between work and getting the boys ready for Halloween we had a full day. I realize that you miss them. I will have them contact you tonight. I'm sorry it took you by surprise, I thought I was clear when we spoke on October 17th that I would take you of the plan at the end of the month.

I call xW's parent's house line last night. Gave the phone to S8. No answer. xW calls back 5 minutes later and speaks with boys. S4 does not want to talk, I ask him to at least say hi, in the meantime xW is talking away, he says hi mom and gives me the phone back, I tell xW S4 is done talking and that I have to go, she says oh with a very bad tone as soon as she heard me and I hung up.

Today I feel ill, reviewed the judgment of dissolution and made comments back to L. Getting into specifics of drop off and pick up times. I also ask to put in a statement that no boyfriends are allowed to take kids to activities without the parent that has parenting time present or without the other parent's consent. My Ls are fighting me on this when xW was the one asking for background checks of babysitters over the summer. I am getting very frustrated with this whole situation.


H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6
S-9,8,8,6,4
S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15
EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16
PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16
XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16
Finally moving forward...