I am restarting a hobby, used to play guitar and sing, ... so doing that, and-- running and lift weights. Still less talkative than the old days, I do not talk about work like I used to... but I am friendly. A few times in the past days, she simply asks what I am thinking about or something. One times said, not about me I hope.(and I think she meant, hoping I was not thinking negative thoughts about her). I simply said nope...

Taking some time off of the talking for a few days but today, my W described the past few months, like it was dream, not real, and then said, not to make light of it. She then said she will work to make it up to me and just wants to be together...She said, I won't let you down...


H (me) 52, W 42
M 15
D14, S12
PA June and Sept 2016
Found out Sept, confronted Oct
NC with OM since Oct, remorseful
Dating since Nov