This is my first post. My husband and best friend left 7 months ago. We have been married for almost 28 years and together for 33 years. I am 55 and he 54. We have 3 great kids, S26, S22 and D20. BD was on Jan.28 and WAH moved out Apr.3. I was absolutely shocked and devastated, thought we had a wonderful close relationship. He has had almost no contact with me and the kids during this. I ended up in hospital twice for depression where WAH visited me 3 times but was very distant. I have done all the wrong things, crying, pleading, etc. It just made him run even faster into the arms of a very young girl waiting on the sidelines. Now I have gone NC as it just hurts too much to see him like this. I cannot seem to get over the loss. In the beginning he said confusing things to my kids such as 'if I come back things will have to different" and 'maybe mom and I will reconnect in the future". Fast forward 5 months and now he seems very certain he isn't coming back. He and his young GF are traveling all over the world and spending loads of money on dinners, hotels, etc. I miss my husband so much and realize without a doubt that he is in a MLC. The kids are missing him too as he seems to have no interest in seeing them or talking to them. I have read so much about MLC in the last 9 months and I know what I should be doing but I cannot seem to get over my depression and get on with my life. I think about it all the time and I am so sad all the time. How do I move on when the love of my life is gone? I really need some advise on how to deal with this...
