Sorry my question was when does one know they are ready to start trying to build a new relationship with someone else ...I know I am not there
In Divorce Remedy, MWD warns about entering into a new relationship immediately following the divorce.
Ghost, you fear being alone. You are co-dependent on a relationship. If you go into a new R following the breakup of your M........the chances of finding yourself in a similar situation again, are high. Subconsciously, you are trying to replace your W by getting another woman as quickly as you can.
You need some time to learn who you are and heal what has been hurt. Have you had any breakthrough with the therapist you are seeing?
In time, you will fall in love again, however, please do not begin another R right away.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
