wife is going through withdrawal

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I found out about the EA and exposed it to everyone including her employer. Because of our financial situation she cannot change jobs until she finds another. She is being transferred to another division where she will not have to interact with OM. The OM also lives in a different continent and so their chances of seeing one another is slim to none. She has been very remorseful and is committed to saving our marriage. She has given me access to her emails, phones (work phone too), laptops and is very honest about everything and accounts for her time now.

However some days she feels distant from me and just wants to be alone and some days she is the opposite. My emotions are high and don't know what to expect. I know it will be long tough road ahead of us but how do we restore the passion that we once had for one another with me smothering her?