Cherry, If he happens to be around when you are around, you could try to engage him a little and make small talk. See what happens.
The thing about detaching while interacting is that it is so dam hard. It's so hard not to get your expectations up and not spin. That's why the advice here tends towards detaching only. Piecing here is the stage when the wws/waw and the lbs have both expressed interest in working on the M.
If you really can detach while attempting to reach out, I say go for it. I honestly feel that there are times when you need to reach out, sort of like the wws' temperature checking.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
