I do believe there is a fear in her that I could fall for someone else, someone who hasn't hurt me as much as she has. But we all know that's not happening because I really do want my M.
If this is directed at me, then this is not the question I was asking.
I didnt ask if W was worried that you would fall for someone else.
I asked if she had any fear that you would walk away.
That has nothing to do with the presence of another person. This is about you knowing what you WANT and NEED out of a relationship and determining that your current W cant provide that. This is about your BOUNDARIES and the kinds of behavior that you will refuse to accept out of a partner.
NYG - Ive been with you in one form or another since the beginning. The ast thing I want to see is you back in the spot you were last winter. I know the hell youve been here and I hope that it has molded you into the strong independent woman I know that you can be. Im ecstatic that you and W are giving this a shot. But I dont want you to wind back in the same hell at some point in the future.
As you go through this, please remember YOUR worth and YOUR value.
