Your focus is to be on you. Not getting him to say or do anything.
As far as the snooping. It will drive you crazy! I know not feels good for 3 seconds but, it will literally drive you insane. You see that he had a bad date and wanted it to be bad. Then he says he misses you..... you get excited....then he takes it back... you get let down.
You really have to work on detaching if you want a shot. I still think the d&d thing is gong to be an issue. Many on here talk about even if you have kids you should detach and literally only discuss kids. You are still hanging out with him! How have you helped him to feel what life would be like without you? What have you been doing to detach?
Your clock is ticking on the date. I advise looking to the last resort technique immediately.
34, xw33 M-10, T-18 2D (8 and 5) Ilybinilwy-1/16 EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend) Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated) W moved out-8/16 W Filed 11/21/16 D final 1/30/17
