You are doing great, NC is really one of the hardest things to do when you are used to chatting and bonding with the person you are married to. What's funny is you become used to it, so when/if piecing comes around you have to remind yourself to "re-activate" that part of your brain. But for now lovingly detaching is the absolute best idea.
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3