I'm so sorry he is being so cruel with you and the boys vge
I reall have no advice, what could anyone say about a father that is simply looking for any excuse to stop supporting his family. I wish that you will get better soon so you can gain you independence.
(((Hugs)))
"There's nothing sadder than a conman conning himself"
“There is freedom waiting for you, On the breezes of the sky, And you ask "What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, What if you fly?”