While i hope its true but it does send up a lot of red flags.
The problem now is you might drive yourself crazy with wondering if this is real or not which may actually harm any progress.
I suggest keep at it but also detach: as in not invest to much mentally and emotionally. Instead focus on you. - your monitoring of electronics is for verification only not for snooping / spying. - What are you doing to create a better version of yourself, focus on yourself cause if you keep focusing on her she will end up resenting you for it no matter how many books shes read. - How is your GAL? Met up with your friends?met new friends? rekindle an old hobby? got new hobby?
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.