Thanks guys. It's in my lunch hour so I can keep if brief.
I don't know how I feel about it now. He seemed pretty enthusiastic about my suggestion but that could be me just interpreting his text that way. The last time I saw/spoke with him was at the beginning of September so I'm a little nervous.
Andrew - I'm sure it will go back to my now normal darkness after this but I will accept your 2x4 and any others that come my way. Maybe I can build a log cabin with them all and become a hermit so I can just forget about H once and for all!
Me - 47 H - 45 D-16 M - 6 years Separated - May 16
Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')