Coly, ONE coffee invite in 5 weeks about a prom dress is ok.
keep it short, no R talk (duh), see where he's at. In my case, as you know, my H is still very angry at me (which I interpret as the depression). it bubbled out in little ways. Even if we had a nice coffee, somehow it came back to me in a bad way. Be very cautious!
cautious, casual, quick! Good luck!
me 42 H 32 T 7yr M 6yr BD 5/2016 ILYBNILWY Separated 7/2016