Yes, Feyth. Cheese is probably not a great thing for your boot camp...probably not much on the meal plan. But those tunnels? A great workout if you scramble on all fours! wink

Hang in there, you have so much going for you. Just keep moving and take breathers when you need 'em. As a fellow co-dependent S, its a hard habit to break. I just keep saying...it gets better. And you know what? Each time I come out of the depression states (which keep getting shorter), it does! I'm starting to change my feelings of why me, poor me, and I must somehow have deserved this rejection and betrayal, to "Wow. Too bad H doesn't get to see the "me" I'm becoming. The woman only a fool would leave."

Lucky us with our introspection and awesome DB board friends who wield loving 2x4s. We get to grow and get better. Our S? Well...who knows. That's, I guess, their own journey.


M-51 H-54
2D-27 and 25
M-26 yrs
Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15
He moved out 10-3-15
D filed 1-27-16
D final 10-27-16

Kindness, kindness, kindness.