Yes, I don't believe you were a 'fix' either. In fact, he is staying and doing some hard work right now and that is because he loves you and wants your family to stay together.
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T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus