Cherry. He's gone, and divorce is looking

[Cherry]

Thanks guys, there isn't really much to watch or monitor right now. Haven't seen or heard from him since last week. He briefly came over at the weekend to see a while I was out. He didn't really spend much time with him according to MIL. He was busy doing some work on our computer. He doesn't text or contact about S, and as part of my 180- I don't contact him neither. Am I doing the right thing? I feel like it helps me a bit more to detach from him. There has been the odd occasion I've thought of messaging him, but I have resisted.

Meanwhile, in my life, I've been pretty busy with work and social arrangements. My diary is pretty much jam packed. I do feel pretty detached from him, apart from the odd sadness, im pretty much getting on with my life and focussing on me and the babies. I do feel like there is no hope for reconciliation, especially given that I never hear from him and he doesn't really see any of us