We talk about it in counseling. But W never really gets called out on it or has to answer... why would you do such a thing????? But when I ask her she just says it was a dumb, dumb mistake and she regrets it. I think the MC says it takes a while to get over an A... blechhh.
I'm probably going to be outbid on the condo... i was hoping mine would be the only offer but there's another one... oh well.
I am planning things without W, and accepting invitations whether she can join or not (well one for this Saturday...) She's busy now two nights every mid-week so I do things when she's not home, and sometimes when she is. I do NOT want to just wait to see her schedule then adjust mine to fit hers. And I am trying to wear those cool outfits. W does notice. I do need to work on being more the life of the party even though I'm not the life of any party... W likes that, and it does make her think I'm more desirable and that someone could be interested... and she doesn't want that! I do believe there is a fear in her that I could fall for someone else, someone who hasn't hurt me as much as she has. But we all know that's not happening because I really do want my M.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
