WW, My Addiction, My D, my new life...

[rich4j]

Trumpet

I haven't posted in a while on my own gig or commented on others but will probably be joining you on the other forum as my D inches towards completion every so slowly

On loneliness- its hard. Halloween and going to my former neighoborhood also a FEW blocks away brought back sadness. Sounds like you are doing some good things like getting the running going which is super. I have engaged in some meet ups but have not done a ton with it

Sounds like she is going through a mid life crisis in terms of the transformation with clothes, hair, selfishness etc.....

I would have a hard time with the OM in town scenario and your kids. But as you say, you can't control this and her.

What you can do is continue to be the great dad and take care of yourself.

Is their anger? I see you go to an IC once a month (ditto for me). I spend a good amount of time on the anger portion and try to get through it so i know how best to deal with it. With your sitch, I would also have some built up anger for sure as its natural.

Missing being married is natural....I miss it alot sometimes and I would say more of family/marriage. Otherwise, I don't really miss her too much and sounds like you don't either.

Take care!