I have no idea if any of this stuff I am doing is working. I feel better and more stable so I guess that means it is working. I'm finding it easier not to reach out to him and he is reaching out to me. Today, he messaged and asked if he could put my winter tires on my car for me. Don't really know what to say. The gesture is thoughtful but part of me feels like he is just trying to keep a foot in the door just in case whatever he is doing doesn't work out.
MC is scheduled for this Thursday at his request. I am wanting to cancel. He needs to be doing some work on myself and I need to continue working on me.
Support group tonight! Going to go to my first yoga class this week too! Yay me!
Don't assume he isn't working on himself. His "work" may include all the things he's been doing or asking to do. Detaching is a 180 for people that are connected. If he was distant before, detaching would be a horrible thing for him to do and his 180 would be to reach out and try to engage more.
With that being said. Focus on you and your stuff. i think you are doing a great job!
34, xw33 M-10, T-18 2D (8 and 5) Ilybinilwy-1/16 EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend) Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated) W moved out-8/16 W Filed 11/21/16 D final 1/30/17
