Exactly as you just practically said.

"WH, as it stands we are separated. It's important that we both take this time to figure out what we both want. With that being said, it Is not appropriate or comfortable for me for you to treat this house as your home. I'm asking you to respect that this is where I live and when you are here you are only visiting which means that my bedroom is off limits along with any/all belongings in general. I respect your privacy and boundaries and expect you to do the same. If you can't adhere to this then the next step is to no longer allow you to be here."


34, xw33
M-10, T-18
2D (8 and 5)
Ilybinilwy-1/16
EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend)
Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated)
W moved out-8/16
W Filed 11/21/16
D final 1/30/17