Ok, so, here's my two cents on this guy. You are going to compare him to your exbf. It happens after a relationship ends. But I know you know that you cant do that. Everyone is different.
I do believe you should be open to all possibilities or else you can miss out on someone wonderful. That said, I also agree with DonH...that you need to follow your gut.
Maybe what you are feeling is true..that he doesnt do it for you. But I dont think you can really know that until you meet him. Unless there is a definitive eww feeling in your stomach.
You are scared and tired and just dont want things to be so difficult, right? I so get that. Unfortunately, things just dont seem to go easily for either of us. Not sure why that is. But it's what we got.
As far as your cousin, that is sad. I guess it is possible for anyone to cheat. I cant imagine doing that, though. I am honest to a fault. And to me, it seems like such a lot of work and trouble.
G, we both need to learn to let go some and allow life to happen and see where it goes sometimes. I think we get in our own heads and overthink some things.
Sorry for the highjack, G, but I am steaming angry reading Rosa's post. Rosa, your ex is a as$ and his way sounds like one, too. Sorry, but, I calls it like I sees it. Shame on him for allowing her to stop him from helping his son. And shame on her for saying anything about someone elses' children..especially her husband's. I always thought you were way too nice to the both of them. I hope you mean it when you say that is done.
