Okay, so I definitely need to lay down some boundaries.
I have been letting his visits happen in our family home even though he doesn't live here anymore. He does some household stuff when he is here sometimes like taking out the garbage, etc. A couple of weekends ago, he did my laundry which I thought was odd(He has NEVER done laundry)but whatever. Tonight, after the trick or treaters had slowed, I went in my bedroom to get changed. Wet towel on the bed. My undies drawer open. He, apparently, had a shower, then dug through my drawer, and threw his wet towel on my bed?
I don't want to start the process with a lawyer because I don't quite want to give him the nudge in that direction yet but how the heck am I supposed to lay down some ground rules?
