Job - just to clarify, he's not drinking, he's a sex addict. But all the rest still applies - he needs to be working his 12 step program.
Also, Twinmom - is your 2 year old not stable enough with cornstarch feedings? Could you hire a home health nurse to babysit? Or maybe you could make friends with another mom in your area with a special needs child, and train each other how to provide care for the other's child, and trade off childcare sometimes?
