I have a friend who attends meetings at least 2-3 times a week and they are at various locations. In some areas, they hold them during the day, evening and weekends. Your h isn't putting forth 100% in attending meetings. Meeting online is okay, but actually going to the meetings is a much better step in the right direction.
Your h isn't being sincere w/you if he's not attending more meetings than once a month and working w/his sponsor. Until he's going and doing the hard work, you won't be able to trust him, nor eventually get your feelings back for him. You didn't break him, therefore you can't fix him.
Last edited by job; 10/31/1604:43 PM. Reason: Edited to remove Al-Anon suggestion
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
