The strategy I'm trying to take right now is, let her do her thing, and I'll do my thing. Let's act separated.
So is coming on to her something that is part of the separation?
You can call it a 180 if you want, but to me, it sounds like you are hoping that being physical will ignite some kind of 'spark' in her. I dont think that will work.
Also, did you ask about STDs before trying to sleep with her?
No, it's obviously not a part of the separation, it is 180, and, I have thought maybe it'll help us, but I really (REALLY) just want to have my way with her. I don't know that it will ever happen TBH though.
No, I haven't asked about STDs, but, if I ever get the chance, I'll ask her before we start (although, that could be a mood killer...hmm, gonna have to think about that one).
M 40 W 40 S 2.5 Together 13 years Married 11 years BD: 09/23/16 PA, then long Distance EA confirmed 9/30/16 Exposed A to OM's W 10/7/16 A ended 10/10/16
