Progress is slow but does happen!

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I too was eating rotten egg cake, I am not the type of guy to live in the same house as someone who doesn't respect me or the vows that where taken. I did however not try to force her out, I just left. I don't think she thought I would and now that we are nearing the holidays her head is slightly out of the clouds. She builds the "custody calendar" and it is going well. But she had to put it in writing last night that she will not see the S13 on Turkey day. I gave her Christmas but it still hit her pretty hard. Her head didn't come out enough to admit that she would miss me on the holidays but I can only hope some of those feelings arose. She has had several A's over the course of 8-10 years of our 21y M. So after she asked me to be patient, and told me it was time for her to be selfish now, I realized that I cannot let either of those things happen while being M'd, so I filed. Another reason I filed for D was because again, without her willingness to move forward, admit her fault, show remorse. I know that I would not be able to trust her ever again.