Morality Clause in D decree???

[SBJ]

Vapo...I agree with you with regards that she wants out and will have to realize that we cannot be friends once she walks out the door. But as I said, I will not tell my kids, who are innocent here, anything negative about their mother. They don't deserve to be dumped on either.

If at some point, she realizes what she lost, then and only then she will have to apologize, repent and change her ways. At this point I am trying to tell myself that that will never happen, so that it will make moving on easier.

As for the bread crumbs, I have seen the roller coaster type of signs so far. Meaning that one minute she will be angry and the next she wants to be friends. Again, at this point I am trying to cope for myself, figure our how to split up 25 years worth of assets, and figure out how to stay strong for my kids.