OK, but seriously. Jelly always speaks the truth to you, Zues. It seems you are determinedly holding on to a narrow view of women and projecting it onto all of us. Even though you suspect we might not all fit into the same mold, it's just easier to classify us in a group that supports your position. That's OK. You are doing what gets you through the week in a way you can manage, focusing on your kids, your job, pool. You've come such a long way already, it's time to stay here a while and regroup. When you are ready to shift again, you will. And I suspect there will be an amazing woman there ready to take your hand and lead you down the path to a place where it's a little easier to trust, to share, to breathe. Promise when you get there, you'll let us know. And you'll bring her to Chicago.
