Just popping in to say how thankful I am for this site and for all of you. Honestly, I think I would be dead if I tried to deal with stbxh "alone" and without the knowledge that this site provides.
I can't even believe how nasty he's gotten. I prayed for months and months just hoping he would realize that I wasn't fighting him. I prayed that he would wake up and realize that he was swinging at air. Now that we're in the legal phase, I must protect myself..... I'm still not fighting.... Just defending.... But he thinks I'm trying to take him down and has even portrayed me as evil. He said I was smiling evilishly as I told him I'm not signing over the house. Not true!!!!
How did I become the scum of the earth overnight? This really is too much. I'm a good person and I have to stop giving a f*ck about what him or my inlaws or ex-friends think. I keep trying to trust the universe and a higher power that all will be ok, but I'm having a hard time relinquishing that control.
Thanks for allowing me to "spin" a bit. I just....... Ugh.... There are no words.
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16
