Thanks Guys. I'm trying the 'going dark' route but don't know when and if I'll get results - and subsequently how long to leave it.
I have received a very polite and friendly email from the W this afternoon stating that she is going to receive some state benefit for childcare costs and therefore she's said that I can reduce my payments (which I felt was very fair). This doesn't seem the actions of a WW to me - thoughts ladies and gents?....
M - 36 / W - 32 S - 3 Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016 Moved out - 4th Sept 2016