You may have mentioned this before….. sorry I do not remember. Does S19 live with you?
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Not sure if it is too OCD, but I just made myself a spreadsheet to fill in all of my daily activities during the week as well as the weekends.
I think this is a good idea.
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So last night around 11pm the W tells me that she has told my 2 youngest that D is more than likely happening.
I know how much this s*cks. You may want to consider talking to the kids to let them know that this is NOT their fault.
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I understand that she isn't making sense, but her crazy is making me crazy.
Detach, detach, detach. You decide how long you stay on the crazy train.
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We've been so close for so long that it's hard for me to totally withdraw.
Hard but NOT impossible.
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So this week I get to celebrate my birthday while my wife and kids are moving out...effing great.
Why are the kids moving out? Is this their choice or is this what you W said SHE was doing?
Look dude, I am not sure who is the primary care giver for the kids – does it make sense for them to move with her or is it better for them to stay with you and spend weekends with their mom?
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
