New LBH with WAW/Possibly WW, help Part 2

[nutts]

well, the weekend came and went, without much happening. W went to a Halloween party with a friend of hers sat. night, I went to football game sat, then took S trunk or treat with my mom and grandparents, and that was nice.

I found out W has been buying dinnerware and linens, I guess for when she moves out. I would've let her take most of the stuff from our house, but whatever. she's using her credit card to do it, if she pays it off with my money, I may have to ask her about it.(she doesn't know I know)

I told her im giving her space, not going to ask what or with whom she's doing things with, so we can stay in our house for the benefit of S.

and, 1 thing that I'm doing, I know may be controversial here, but is complete 180 for me, Im basically coming onto her sexually. I told her, after she was done putting S down, to put on lingerie and come in the MBR. she said, not while I'm on my period (she was, I had hoped it was done). and the next day I told her it was hard for me to sleep as I kept thinking of how hot she looked the other day.

maybe I need a 2x4 but old me never did this, I know it breaks one of sandi's rules, but it's truly a 180. plus, I really want to see if she's willing because she told me early on she doest want me to ever touch her again.

let's she want this week brings. I'm go8ng to visit a friend this weekend, should be fun.