I wish I had someone sitting beside me as I text or don't text. He has sent me a lot of messages today. In part, it seems he is looking for reassurance. I don't really know where to go with that.

I'm 99% sure the OW is out of the picture currently. Doesn't mean it will stay that way permanently but I outed them. Not particularly proud of how I handled it but not much I can do about it now. She's a Bunny Boiler.

WS asked me tonight to wait the three months that the MC said it takes to reset patterns before I make any moves. Trouble is, although he seems to be missing his life, he doesn't seem to be making any progress on himself. He still hasn't contact an IC. I'm going to keep moving forward and I have a feeling that he his going to be lagging to far behind to catch up.

How do I let him stew in his own misery?

He asked me tonight if I have a boyfriend. Ya dude. We've been separated three weeks and I have a boyfriend.


Me: 41
WH: 41
DS: 21
DD: 20
DD:18

Dday: Oct 2016
Currently Separated