I think you are doing a great job. I see that your husband is VERY conflicted based on his actions. His is in a hell of his own creation right now. Let him sit in it an be miserable. Let him see what he has done to your M. You focus on YOU right now. Dont feel like you have to respond to every text he sends you. Make him miss you. OW has NOTHING on you.
Me: 48 y/o W: 47 y/o Together: > 20 yrs BD: Dec '15, then S 2nd BD: Mar '16, then I filed for D April '16: started piecing
