W bailed on D again today. We weren't surprised. W wants the love seat out of our living room. S was against this so offered to buy it from her. W texted him this morning telling him she wanted $800 for it. He went off on her. Told her if she was gonna live with the OM he should be providing for them. Told her to take all the furniture if she wanted but OM better. It set foot on our property and S won't bring it to her bc he's not stepping foot on OMs property. W texted me this afternoon saying she's not asking for anything from me but wants stuff from the house. Says its half hers too. I said yes but it's partly the kids too. She texts back saying to keep it. She knows she's hurt everyone and she never meant for this to happen. I didn't text her back but was thinking, if she didn't mean for this to happen what did she think was going to happen. She went looking for an OM, she moved out and blamed all of her probs on me, and she's the one who filed for divorce. Idk. Maybe she is starting to feel remorse. I'm being cautious though. She's done me like this before. Gets me to feel sorry for her the. I get my hopes up and she breaks me down again. How can u tell when the remorse is genuine?