I always struggled to not respond at all....never really got there and part of me always thinks....isn't that rude??! I guess I'm too much of a good girl.

However, I did get the hang of brief, pleasant, delayed responses.

Great, thanks smile
Yes - enjoyed it, thanks for asking
Had a lovely time :-)
Brilliant, thank you!

And so on....It's a good idea to leave non-essential stuff at least a little while...couple of hours? And then a 3 or 4 wonder is perfect I think...

Xx


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus