Heavy, I was not directing this at the original poster but to Pam (Aquarian) whose issues with her husband are actually issues (imo) that they BOTH need to work on. She seems to shove off a lot of responsibility for their current breakdown on him, when it should be shared equally.
No, the original poster has my deep sympathy. Her H is in a deep addiction and I think she needs to follow through with her ultimatum. That is unacceptable behavior from him.
