Huddy, I think it's inappropriate for her to say that to your child. Yes, you have marital issues, but those are not about your kids.
So, maybe apologise for the mistake, but you may also want to let her know that you don't think it's okay for her to say stuff like that to your kids. By all means, highlight the anomaly, but don't make that about your R with your children. That's not okay IMHO.
I don't know what it means Huddy, but TBH if she was feeling unloved and wanted back in, she'd need to develop a little more emotional maturity, put on her big girl panties and tell you she made a mistake....JMHO of course
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