sex starved becuz of porn...

[DBrookie]

[D]do you think there is ever a point where a relationship issue (addiction comes to mind) has gotten too toxic and abusive to really try a 180? Isn't there just a point where you should get out? I'm asking this, DBR, because I appreciate your male point of view on this porn stuff.

Sure, I mean you have to make some boundaries, and if your SO/H/W won't respect your boundaries, then how much do they really care about you?

On the surface...sounds like a lot of double standard stuff...and it also sounds like the guy has serious issues if he has that much porn. He's collecting enough porn to supply a small country.

A copy of Playboy is one thing...40 CDs of stuff is another. Wine at dinner is one thing...a bottle of Jim Beam a night is another. Know when to say when...