We started here the same time G. It seems you are making progress, at a snails pace but progress none the same. You have to work through this as you see fit. I can say through my experience the shortest way to where you want to go may not be the direct path. Take the long way home. She does not want you hanging on her apron strings, pick up the torch and blaze a new path for you and your family. She may follow you there or not but you will find yourself in the process. The key to getting her back is you finding yourself. Be well